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If someone you text is an introvert and you are not, it may be difficult for you to grasp the flow of communication since introvert texting habits are quite different from those of an extrovert. For introverts who wish to accept the uniqueness of their personality, it is essential to know that habits are formed over time and introverts around the world form similar texting habits.
You may have been texting for decades since it is the most common form of communication worldwide across all ages. Irrespective of personality type (extrovert or introvert), texting habits formed over two decades indicate that generally people prefer messaging 3 times more than face-to-face communication whereas Millennials are 8 times more likely to text than call. GlobeNewswire reports that a normal smartphone user sends 3 messages per hour and uses 3 different messaging apps in a week. With the advent of the Internet and communications industry, a wide number of online apps have made it easier for everyone to send a message.
[meme of joker “Its all about sending a message”]
Here we summarize how to understand introvert texting habits so that interpersonal communication in your circle is a fun activity for all.
Introverts might not respond straight away
Well, this is a no-brainer, no one would be able to respond to your text immediately all the time. People are busy with life, right?
However, texting your friend and not receiving a reply for a long time, even though you know your message has been seen, can be irksome. Though if you put yourself in their shoes, your introverted friend can see text messages as another form of communication that interweaves in their personal space. They might think (rather overthink) their response because they prefer a deeper connection with people rather than small talk.
So, give them some time to orient their thoughts into words they deem best to convey to you. Read more about the qualities of introverts that make it difficult for them to meet new people here.
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If not interesting, your text might be forgotten
Distractions are a typical occurrence in today’s world and if your messages are not interesting enough, keeping an introvert attentive to text communication can be difficult. Introverts are multitaskers and are most likely engaged in something else when you text them. Therefore, dull or tardy responses can easily influence them to focus more on other things.
The problem is that they never get upset about it. They would be pleased if you gave them the option of ignoring your communication without making them feel horrible about it.
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Introverts prefer texting when alone
It is more likely for an introvert to text when alone because they are overstimulated by people and interpersonal interaction discharges their social battery. Social energy and introversion go hand in hand. Because introverts derive all of their energy from within, they require a lot of alone time to refuel. Many introverts frequently enjoy working alone, hanging out in comfortable places, or hanging out with people they know well.
Texting is just another way of communication for us all, like talking or writing. When their social battery is running low, it can be difficult for introverts to focus their attention. Either they lose interest or they simply drift off. No matter how interesting the chat is, they can completely stop responding.
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Introverts can find texting as socially draining as calling
Texting is a form of socializing and it can be draining for those who prefer solitude and enjoy their own company. Where voice calls could be located on the summit of a mountain, text messaging could be termed a medium-sized hill. Your introverted friend might not have the social energy to climb the height of a hill to reply.
Though short responses aimed at terminating a conversation could come from the introvert, constant texting could be felt as a draining exercise. Give them time to recharge their social battery and wait for their reply, patiently.
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Text messages can cause anxiety to introverts
There is a significant portion of introverts who suffer from social anxiety occasionally. There might be several reasons for it but you need to understand that this behavior might reflect in introverts’ texting habits as well. Text messages can sometimes put one in a situation where you are fully involved and virtual presence can be as alarming as someone else being in the room. Thus, it is possible that when an introvert receives a text notification, they might not open it because they might have to reply. They prefer to avoid conversation lest it should trigger their social anxiety.
It has been observed that introverts who post on social media such as Twitter, depict more insight as compared to extroverts and possess a higher percentage of anxiety.
Introverts like using memes and emoticons
A picture is worth a thousand words and those who value the weight of words often use visual representation for the expression of their thoughts. An introvert might liven up a text message that does not convey true emotion with emoticons. Since they are quite keen to maintain a healthy flow of communication introverts have texting habits that sometimes rely heavily on emoticons.
Memes have become a universal form of communication globally in the past few years and the wide proliferation of broadband has bolstered their use. People often relate with each other from different continents of the world on a single image with some text on it. Therefore, you might have short visual communication with your introverted friend where memes and emoticons would keep you both interested and connected.
This research has observed that several people have become addicted to apps that allow visual communication such as BlackBerry Messenger and WhatsApp and their attitude towards these apps is significantly related to social anxiety.
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Introverts texting habits might be similar to their social behavior
Texting is often even more effective than talking especially for introverts who prefer avoiding social contact and expressing themselves at their own pace. It looks like the ideal haven for them to put their thoughts into words. As long as it keeps you from ringing them, they might not object if you text them longer paragraphs and keep the conversation interesting.
Even when they know they have something to say, introverts may not reply to your texts because they feel they have nothing to say. They can spend a lot of time thinking about what they want to say, but when the time comes to say it, they are at a loss for words and become irritated with themselves for not being able to articulate themselves properly.
Introverts can have long meaningful conversations on text
You would expect that introvert texting habits would be similar for everyone. Small, curt responses to your messages with few initiations from the introvert. Let me tell you that it is a common misconception.
An introvert is most likely to reply to your text with a brief text message if it fulfills their purpose. However, if the answer is complex, this does not imply that they will respond with a concise response. You can anticipate longer messages from an introvert than you would from an extrovert because introverts frequently prefer to give a full explanation if they believe that it’s important.
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How to best communicate with introverts on text
For the sake of brevity and comprehension, let us remember the following points while texting with introverts:
- It is paramount to respect others’ privacy and alone time. Introverts need time to recharge their social battery. Do not mind if you don’t get a response to your text message late or not at all.
- Try not to irk introverts with constant texting, whether or not you are getting replies.
- Don’t mock or in any other way reprimand your introvert friend on his texting habits.
- Prefer emoticons or memes wherever possible.
Hopefully, the next time you text an introvert, the conversation would be a blast!
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Hadiqa Fatima is a clinical psychologist and content writer. She’s been working in field for 3 years and possess a great deal of interest in personality studies. She’s also creating psychological awareness via her content.
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